Found this gem on Zafirah's blog, I think it does a really good job of summarizing some of the things alot of girls wish guys would do. It's lengthy but I promise it's good. :)


When she walks away from you mad [ Follow her ]
When she stare's at your mouth [ Kiss her ]
When she pushes you or hits you [ Grab her and don’t let go ]
When she start's cussing at you [ Kiss her and tell her you love her ]
When she's quiet [ Ask her what’s wrong ]
When she ignores you [ Give her your attention ]
When she pulls away [ Pull her back ]
When you see her at her worst [ Tell her she's beautiful ]
When you see her start crying [Just hold her and don’t say a word ]
When you see her walking [ Sneak up and hug her waist from behind ]
When she's scared [ Protect her ]
When she lays her head on your shoulder [ Tilt her head up and kiss her ]
When she steals your favorite hat [ Let her keep it and sleep with it for a night]
When she teases you [ Tease her back and make her laugh ]
When she doesn’t answer for a long time [ reassure her that everything is okay ]
When she looks at you with doubt [ Back yourself up ]
When she says that she likes you [ she really does more than you could understand ]
When she grabs at your hands [ Hold hers and play with her fingers ]
When she bumps into you [ bump into her back and make her laugh ]
When she tells you a secret [ keep it safe and untold ]
When she looks at you in your eyes [ don’t look away until she does ]
When she misses you [ shes hurting inside ]
When you break her heart [ the pain never really goes away ]
When she says its over [ she still wants you to be hers ]
When she repost this bulletin [ she wants you to read it ]


- Stay on the phone with her even if she's not saying anything.
- When she's mad hug her tight and don't let go
- When she says she's ok, don't believe it, talk with her
- because 10 yrs later she'll remember you
- Call her at 12:00am on her birthday to tell her you love her
- Call her before you sleep and after you wake up
- Treat her like she's all that matters to you.
- Tease her and let her tease you back.
- Stay up all night with her when she's sick.
- Watch her favorite movie with her or her favorite show even if you think its stupid.
- Give her the world.
- Let her wear your clothes.
- When she's bored and sad, hang out with her.
- Let her know she's important.
- Kiss her in the pouring rain.
- When she runs up at you crying, the first thing you say is; "Who's ass am I kicking babe?"

and I have one more thing to add:
If you feel that way, then let her know she's the best thing that has ever happened to you.

♥


I'm glad it all worked out; so apparently things really do work out on its own.
But I hope it never happens again, because I don't think I have the capacity for it, even though I am (still) surprised at how numb I felt when I found out.
I guess now, i've been through all the kinds of hurt that life could possibly throw at me. So yes, though it would have stung less if it didn't happen, at least now I'll be better prepared for whatever comes my way.
And I hope what's between us now stays precious and faithful and enduring.
I really, really, am hoping.


And previous posts were not referring to anyone or anything regarding DMSM.
Speaking of school, past week was a disaster for me. Apologies.


♥


I'm really looking forward to next week. :)